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What we treat
Addiction
Adjustment difficulties
Anger management
ASPD
Anxiety
ADHD
Autism
Bipolar
Body dysmorphia
Borderline personality
Burn out
Depression and mood
Drug and alcohol
Dyslexia
Eating disorder
Gender and sexual Identity
Grief and bereavement
Infant sleep counselling
Life transition
Narcissism
New parent
Obsessive compulsive disorder
Pain management
Panic disorder
Perinatal and postnatal
Personality disorder
Phobias
PTSD and CPTSD
Relationship counselling
Sexual abuse
Sleep
Smoke addiction
Social anxiety disorder
Stress management
Trauma
Weight management
Our services
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National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS)
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  • How it works
    How it works
  • What we treat
    Addiction
    Adjustment difficulties
    Anger management
    ASPD
    Anxiety
    ADHD
    Autism
    Bipolar
    Body dysmorphia
    Borderline personality
    Burn out
    Depression and mood
    Drug and alcohol
    Dyslexia
    Eating disorder
    Gender and sexual Identity
    Grief and bereavement
    Infant sleep counselling
    Life transition
    Narcissism
    New parent
    Obsessive compulsive disorder
    Pain management
    Panic disorder
    Perinatal and postnatal
    Personality disorder
    Phobias
    PTSD and CPTSD
    Relationship counselling
    Sexual abuse
    Sleep
    Smoke addiction
    Social anxiety disorder
    Stress management
    Trauma
    Weight management
    What we treat
    Addiction
    Adjustment difficulties
    Anger management
    ASPD
    Anxiety
    ADHD
    Autism
    Bipolar
    Body dysmorphia
    Borderline personality
    Burn out
    Depression and mood
    Drug and alcohol
    Dyslexia
    Eating disorder
    Gender and sexual Identity
    Grief and bereavement
    Infant sleep counselling
    Life transition
    Narcissism
    New parent
    Obsessive compulsive disorder
    Pain management
    Panic disorder
    Perinatal and postnatal
    Personality disorder
    Phobias
    PTSD and CPTSD
    Relationship counselling
    Sexual abuse
    Sleep
    Smoke addiction
    Social anxiety disorder
    Stress management
    Trauma
    Weight management
  • Our services
    Medicare (bulk bill)
    National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS)
    The Department of Veterans' Affairs (DVA)
    WorkCover
    Self funded therapy
    Our services
    Medicare (bulk bill)
    National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS)
    The Department of Veterans' Affairs (DVA)
    WorkCover
    Self funded therapy
  • Our psychologists
    Our psychologists
  • Pricing
    Pricing
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Borderline Personality

A condition characterised by pervasive instability in mood, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and behaviour.

Borderline Personality

A condition characterised by pervasive instability in mood, interpersonal relationships, self-image, and behaviour.

Symptoms or signs you may experiencing Borderline Personality:

Individuals with BPD often display the following symptoms:

  • Intense and Unstable Relationships: Frequent and intense mood swings that affect relationships with family, friends, and partners.

  • Fear of Abandonment: A strong fear of being abandoned, leading to desperate efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment.

  • Unstable Self-Image: An unstable self-image or sense of self, often marked by sudden shifts in identity, values, and goals.

  • Impulsive Behaviours: Engaging in impulsive and potentially harmful behaviours, such as substance abuse, binge eating, or reckless driving.

  • Recurrent Suicidal Thoughts or Self-Harming Behaviors: Persistent thoughts of self-harm or engaging in self-destructive behaviours as a coping mechanism.

  • Emotional Instability: Intense and unpredictable emotional responses, including irritability, anxiety, and depression.

  • Chronic Feelings of Emptiness: A persistent sense of emptiness and boredom, often leading to an ongoing search for stimulation and meaning.

  • Difficulty Controlling Anger: Frequent and intense anger, difficulty controlling temper, and expressing anger inappropriately.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can present unique challenges for individuals, impacting their emotions, relationships, and overall well-being. Our specialised Someone.health psychologists are here to offer understanding, guidance, and tailored support to help individuals manage and enhance their mental health.

Recognising Borderline Personality Disorder:

Borderline Personality Disorder is characterised by pervasive patterns of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image, and emotions.

Treatment Approaches for Borderline Personality Disorder:
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): A specialised form of therapy that combines cognitive-behavioural techniques with acceptance strategies to improve emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness.

  • Cognitive-behavioural Therapy (CBT): Identifying and challenging negative thought patterns to promote healthier behaviours and emotional responses.

  • Mindfulness Practices: Incorporating mindfulness and meditation techniques to enhance self-awareness and emotional regulation.

  • Interpersonal Effectiveness Training: Building skills to navigate and improve interpersonal relationships.

  • Emotion Regulation Skills: Learning strategies to manage and regulate intense emotions effectively.

Take the First Step Toward Healing:

If you or someone you know is dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder, schedule an appointment with one of our psychologists. They are ready to provide support and collaborate on a personalised treatment plan.

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Frequently ask questions

How will I know the therapy is working for me?

It will not always be obvious and it could be gradual. But when you start feeling better, then that means that the therapy is working.

You'll also be able to see things more clearly as you progress with your talk therapy. Healing, however, is not always so clear-cut. There will always be ups and downs. If that happens, you can talk to your psychologist about your progress and be open with what you're feeling.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

There are many studies proving online and face-to-face therapy are equally as effective.

Yes. Studies (like this one) have shown online therapy is just as effective as face to face. Similarly, research (like this one) demonstrates the importance of being able to quickly access care when needed.

Are all your psychologists registered?

Australia has regulatory bodies to ensure we maintain consistent and high standards across the psychology profession.

Yes. They are registered with the Psychology Board of Australia (PsyBA), listed with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA), and individually selected and monitored by Someone.health's expert clinical team.

How long does it take to see a psychologist?

Appointments are available immediately

Once you have signed up and we have verified your details, you can choose a psychologist who is available immediately. Our website displays in order of the first available appointment.

Can a psychologist prescribe medication?

Only your GP or a psychiatrist can prescribe medication.

Medication can only be prescribed by medical doctors, which includes general practitioners (GPs) and psychiatrists.

If you need the services of a psychiatrist, please visit Call To Mind, a telehealth service specialising in psychiatry.