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What we treat
Addiction
Adjustment difficulties
Anger management
ASPD
Anxiety
ADHD
Autism
Bipolar
Body dysmorphia
Borderline personality
Burn out
Depression and mood
Drug and alcohol
Dyslexia
Eating disorder
Gender and sexual Identity
Grief and bereavement
Infant sleep counselling
Life transition
Narcissism
New parent
Obsessive compulsive disorder
Pain management
Panic disorder
Perinatal and postnatal
Personality disorder
Phobias
PTSD and CPTSD
Relationship counselling
Sexual abuse
Sleep
Smoke addiction
Social anxiety disorder
Stress management
Trauma
Weight management
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  • How it works
    How it works
  • What we treat
    Addiction
    Adjustment difficulties
    Anger management
    ASPD
    Anxiety
    ADHD
    Autism
    Bipolar
    Body dysmorphia
    Borderline personality
    Burn out
    Depression and mood
    Drug and alcohol
    Dyslexia
    Eating disorder
    Gender and sexual Identity
    Grief and bereavement
    Infant sleep counselling
    Life transition
    Narcissism
    New parent
    Obsessive compulsive disorder
    Pain management
    Panic disorder
    Perinatal and postnatal
    Personality disorder
    Phobias
    PTSD and CPTSD
    Relationship counselling
    Sexual abuse
    Sleep
    Smoke addiction
    Social anxiety disorder
    Stress management
    Trauma
    Weight management
    What we treat
    Addiction
    Adjustment difficulties
    Anger management
    ASPD
    Anxiety
    ADHD
    Autism
    Bipolar
    Body dysmorphia
    Borderline personality
    Burn out
    Depression and mood
    Drug and alcohol
    Dyslexia
    Eating disorder
    Gender and sexual Identity
    Grief and bereavement
    Infant sleep counselling
    Life transition
    Narcissism
    New parent
    Obsessive compulsive disorder
    Pain management
    Panic disorder
    Perinatal and postnatal
    Personality disorder
    Phobias
    PTSD and CPTSD
    Relationship counselling
    Sexual abuse
    Sleep
    Smoke addiction
    Social anxiety disorder
    Stress management
    Trauma
    Weight management
  • Our services
    Medicare (bulk bill)
    National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS)
    The Department of Veterans' Affairs (DVA)
    WorkCover
    Self funded therapy
    Our services
    Medicare (bulk bill)
    National Disability Insurance Scheme (NDIS)
    The Department of Veterans' Affairs (DVA)
    WorkCover
    Self funded therapy
  • Our psychologists
    Our psychologists
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Personality disorder

Long-term, rigid and unhealthy patterns of thoughts and behaviours that differ from what's considered culturally “normal”.

Personality disorder

Long-term, rigid and unhealthy patterns of thoughts and behaviours that differ from what's considered culturally “normal”.

Your personality is like your unique blueprint—it shapes how you think, feel, behave, and connect with others. Personality disorders are a set of mental health conditions marked by long-term patterns of thoughts and behaviours that differ from what's considered normal in your culture. These patterns are rigid and unhealthy, causing significant challenges in relationships, work, and social activities. Coping with everyday stress becomes difficult.

Types of Personality Disorders:

  • Cluster A: Involves unusual and odd thoughts and behaviours.

    • Paranoid Personality Disorder: Extreme fear and distrust of others.

    • Schizoid Personality Disorder: Prefers solitude and lacks interest in relationships.

    • Schizotypal Personality Disorder: Unusual thoughts and behaviours, discomfort in close relationships.

  • Cluster B: Involves dramatic and emotional thoughts and behaviours.

    • Antisocial Personality Disorder: Manipulative, exploitative, and violates others' rights.

    • Borderline Personality Disorder: Emotionally unstable, impulsive, and struggles with self-image.

    • Histrionic Personality Disorder: Dramatic, emotional, and seeks constant attention.

    • Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Lacks empathy, desires admiration, believes superiority.

  • Cluster C: Involves anxious and fearful thoughts and behaviours.

    • Avoidant Personality Disorder: Shyness, feelings of inadequacy, avoidance due to fear of rejection.

    • Dependent Personality Disorder: Over-reliance on others, fear of losing relationships.

    • Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder: Need for control and order, perfectionism.

Causes of Personality Disorders:

The onset is typically in teens or early adulthood, and the exact cause is unknown. Genes and childhood experiences, like abuse or trauma, likely contribute.

Symptoms of Personality Disorders:

Symptoms vary, but all disorders involve challenges in self-perception and relational difficulties. Individuals with personality disorders may not realise they have a problem, often viewing their thoughts as normal.

Diagnosing Personality Disorders:

Mental health care providers diagnose personality disorders by considering symptoms, experiences, and family medical history. A comprehensive medical exam may be conducted to rule out other potential causes.

Treatment for Personality Disorders:

Primary treatment involves talk therapy (psychotherapy), tailored to the specific disorder. Medications may help manage certain symptoms like anxiety or mood swings.

Understanding personality and navigating personality disorders can be complex. Seeking guidance from a mental health professional is crucial for accurate diagnosis and effective treatment. If you or someone you know may be experiencing challenges related to personality, reaching out to a qualified mental health care provider is the first step towards support and healing.

Treatment Options:

Contemporary approaches to treating personality disorders emphasise a holistic and multidimensional strategy. Some key elements include:

  • Therapy:

    • Evidence-based psychotherapies, such as dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) for BPD, can help individuals develop healthier thought patterns, coping mechanisms, and interpersonal skills.

  • Mindfulness and Coping Strategies:

    • Integrating mindfulness practices and coping strategies into treatment plans enhances emotional regulation and resilience.

It is important to recognise that effective treatment often involves a collaborative and individualised approach, tailored to the unique needs of each person. Seeking professional guidance ensures a comprehensive assessment and the development of a personalised treatment plan.

Your Path to Wellness:

At Someone.health, our experienced team of mental health professionals is dedicated to providing compassionate and evidence-based care for individuals with personality disorders. We believe in fostering understanding, empowering individuals to navigate challenges, and supporting their journey toward improved mental well-being. If you or a loved one is seeking guidance on personality disorders, we invite you to connect with us and embark on a path toward positive transformation.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How will I know the therapy is working for me?

It will not always be obvious and it could be gradual. But when you start feeling better, then that means that the therapy is working.

You'll also be able to see things more clearly as you progress with your talk therapy. Healing, however, is not always so clear-cut. There will always be ups and downs. If that happens, you can talk to your psychologist about your progress and be open with what you're feeling.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

There are many studies proving online and face-to-face therapy are equally as effective.

Yes. Studies (like this one) have shown online therapy is just as effective as face to face. Similarly, research (like this one) demonstrates the importance of being able to quickly access care when needed.

Are all your psychologists registered?

Australia has regulatory bodies to ensure we maintain consistent and high standards across the psychology profession.

Yes. They are registered with the Psychology Board of Australia (PsyBA), listed with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA), and individually selected and monitored by Someone.health's expert clinical team.

How long does it take to see a psychologist?

Appointments are available immediately

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Can a psychologist prescribe medication?

Only your GP or a psychiatrist can prescribe medication.

Medication can only be prescribed by medical doctors, which includes general practitioners (GPs) and psychiatrists.

If you need the services of a psychiatrist, please visit Call To Mind, a telehealth service specialising in psychiatry.

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